Comparing Yourself To Others

So when people compare themselves to others it really bugs me.
Everyone is different. Everyone has their own individual talents. Everyone has their own beauty. Everyone has their own intelligence. Not two people on this planet are the same. To compare yourself to someone as you view "better than you", in my eyes, is to disrespect yourself. Respecting ourselves can sometimes involve hard choices about what to do and what not to do. Respecting ourselves means to make the right decision for YOU.
I hate being compared to someone in a different class, or group. I am me. I do things my way. I can dance and sing at the same time; yes. I can do all of my chemical equations in physics; no. But that doesn't make me any less worth someone who can do all of their chemical equations in physics. But they probably can't sing and dance well. Every single one of us has different talents. We should not look down on ourselves because Paul in the other group can do something I can't.
Sheila at school said I'm uglier than her, don't listen to Sheila - you're beautiful.
Harry at my football club said I should go to a different team because I'm rubbish at dribbling - you go to whichever team you like, you're awesome.
We should not judge ourselves by listening to how other people compare us. We are all different and the sooner some people learn to accept that, the better.

" Be yourself, Everybody else is already taken "

- Oscar Wilde

You stay you because in my eyes, you're perfect

M xx

New Instagram!

So this is just a little post to let you know that I have now set up an instagram account dedicated to updates and cute things about this blog! I might do a little competition in the next few days over there, so go and give it a little follow!

@toodarncuteblog

Thank you for your continued support, to have over 200 people read my blog is astonishing for me!
M xx

Halloween Essentials!

Its Halloween next week (much excite!) so I thought I would let you know what my essentials are at this festive time of year!

Decorations:

So first probably comes the pumpkins because what is Halloween without a couple of good pumpkins. When I carve my own pumpkins, I go with a classic triangle-eyes-scary-mouth kinda look but there are so many things you can do with pumpkins. Also this year I have a plastic light up one to put at my door, kids wont burn themselves on it, the candle wont melt out etc. 

Also at Halloween I feel bunting and table decorations are literally the cutest! Cute "Happy Halloween!" bunting makes me so happy inside. People put up fake cobwebs, spiders, ghosts and I just find it all so exciting! Table decorations are also the cutest. Check out Zoella's carving pumpkin video to see what I mean.

Costumes:

Probably one of the most enjoyable things about Halloween is being able to dress up. Costumes for Halloween range so much, you can literally be anything. Personally I'm a witch every time but the freedom is there to be anything you want. Ghost, zombie, witch, cat, LITERALLY ANYTHING. Some peoples make up 100% makes their outfits. How some people do such amazing make up is beyond me! So costumes and dressing up is ABSOLUTELY essential for a great Halloween! 

Music:

Another essential of Halloween is having a great playlist for that fun night in, party or trick or treating. My playlist would include:

• This is Halloween - The Nightmare before Christmas
• Thriller - Michael Jackson
• I Put a Spell on You - Hocus Pocus
• Ghostbusters Theme
• Time Warp - Rocky Horror Show

Just a few amazing spooky tunes to get your celebrations going!

So I hope this post helps you to get ready for the perfect Halloween, let me know if you would like this type of post for other occasions!

Until Next Time, M x

Being More Aware of Cancer

So this week something hit me, real hard (metaphorically speaking!). And I will try to discuss it the best I can here.
If any of you are big SprinkleOfGlitter fans you have probably seen one of her recent uploads - "My Pink Hair Story" and this is what hit me hard. (If you haven't seen it click the photo below)

My Pink Hair Story

In Louise's video she talks about why she died her hair pink and how Cancer took her mums life. I admire Louise for being able to post something like this on the Internet and stay so positive, but this isn't what hit me.
What hit me is that I will never never meet my Grandad. I never have, and I never will because he was also taken by Cancer. Family has such an effect on our lives and to never be able to meet one of them hurts, unexplainably. I will never hear my grandad's laugh, or see his smile, or give him a hug because the stupid disease thought it was okay to take him from me and my family. He died before I was born so I have never met him and I never will. But I'm not asking for your sympathy and there are many people out there just like me.
What I am asking is that you try and donate all you can to finding a cure for cancer. When my Grandad passed things were not as advanced as they are now and he would have more chance of surviving. So by donating you can help people like me, to no longer exist. Help find the cure to cancer!
Click here to donate

Until Next Time,
M xxx

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Autumn is here!

So as I am sat here with a hot chocolate listening to the vamps new single (eek!), it hit me that it is now autumn and that makes me very happy! So this week I thought I would talk about things that make autumn my favourite season of the year!

So firstly, the arrival of autumn means hot drinks and especially - hot chocolate! Hot chocolate is something that I obsess over during autumn. Hot chocolate just has a very cosy feel, agreed? So I highly recommend you drink hot chocolate this year!!!

Another autumnal thing that I LOVE is blankets and fairy lights, like oh my gosh does it get more cute and fun than that! I think not. There is something very autumnal about snuggling up in blankets with friends or that special someone, sticking on the fairy lights and watching a film, being all cosy!

Then there;s the over sized jumpers, cute scarf's and just being allowed to dress comfy. I always associate cute big comfy jumpers with autumn. Wearing cute ankle boots and wrapping up in a scarf! So basically, I love the "fashion" during autumn.

And then there's Halloween! And while in my house, my parents refuse to go madly extravagant on the decorations, when I live alone my house will become a place of scrumptious Halloween-ness! I love the pumpkins, and the candles, and everything Halloween! FYI I am majorly into decorating places for all events, I just love it! So for me Halloween is bringing much excitement to my life right now!

And lastly, the colours of Autumn bring me so much happiness. The reds, the oranges, the browns. The colours of autumn are just gorgeous!
So I hope that you all have a great October and October means we are one month closer to Christmas :)
Until Next Time, M x